Nudism and Sex

By Andy Staveley

I think nudism and sex does get mixed up sometimes. I think that in
Europe and particularly in Germany the people are more in touch with
themselves and more comfortable with nudity. I remember walking round
the Englische Garten in Munich some years ago. It was full of nudists
and naked people just enjoying themselves the same way in which clothed
people would. No one batted an eyelid and its probably how nudism was
intended to be. I cannot for the life of me imagine the same scene in
London's Hyde Park. Well I can, but it wouldn't be pretty.

The point of nudism surely is the sense of freedom and the choice to
remove clothes, go for a swim and just generally chill out. I am not
sure what all the fuss is about. I wonder sometimes why people go to
extraordinary lengths just to get naked even in mid winter when any
fool can see its best to wrap up warm.

There is a certain element of voyeurism in naturism. I am convinced of
this. Most of it is harmless and mild but endless photos of guys
seeking pleasure in having their photos taken - standing straight, arm
on hip, staring out to sea - the emphasis on 'look at my willy' is
really not a good promotion of nudism in general. Even nude on a beach,
I would prefer my lower half left out of the picture but would have no
objections to being photographed fully in a group with others naked. I
would not like to be photographed posing just for the sake of it. This
has nothing to do with not being ashamed or being ashamed of anything.

Nudists who make a habit of this attract ridicule and do naturism no
favours. In the United Kingdom there are several nudist beaches. Unfortunately,
these beaches inevitably attract the 'man in mac' types and all the
nudists tend to be bunched up into some signposted area with big read
warning signs as if the occupants of this part of the beach are
abnormal. Even more disturbing is that they are almost always against a
backdrop of sand dunes. Look closely and you can see the glint of light
shining off the array of binoculars and bird watchers amongst the grass
- sadly they are not seeking the feathered birds. I am sorry if I paint
a sorry and seedy picture of nudism in the UK. There are of course
places where you can find secluded locations and out of the way places
where you can relax and enjoy nudism as it should be enjoyed.

Having enjoyed naturism in the past in countries where the climate and
environment is more condusive to feeling the wind between ones legs, I
am not against naturism in any way at all.
For me naturism is a personal thing. Perhaps something to be enjoyed
with a group of friends or whenever the occassion lends itself. It is
not something that will cause me to run off in desperation to find the
nearest place to remove my clothes.

So, nudism and sex. The two are tied obviously - I hear you gasp. Look
around the internet to try and find a reasonable naturist site such as
this one and you find endless exploits of photos of naturists, nudist
videos for sale and nudist sites designed for people to come and oggle.

Great if your a voyeur and this is what you want. How many genuine
naturists have posted their nude pics somewhere on the net only to find
that they end up on some porn site or adult image bank. Failing that,
and I am sorry to be blunt, but how many end up decorating someones
desktop and objects of lust and desire by people saving money on buying
the latest Playboy mag.

Naturists need to be careful. If your footloose and fancy free and
really don't give a damn thats fine but what happens when you get
married, have kids maybe, and then, lo and behold your 9 year old photo
of you naked is found plastered all over some website. Believe me, it
happens.

The reason why naturism and sex go hand in hand is the reason we have
naturist clubs that do not generally accept single men. The safety and
security factor of such clubs provides a better environment for
nudists. There are also plenty of 'swingers' who are into naturism in a
big way. Naturists attract the wrong types. Its a fact. Another reason
why clubs are so popular. Seclusion is a kind of protection. It is such
a shame that it has to be this way. If our society were more liberal
and we had all become used to naturism and nudism in the parks and
streets of our land then perhaps many more would be encouraged to shed
their clothing.

And finally, naturism is all about getting back to nature? I am not so
sure. What I do find funny is naturists wandering around a supermarket
carrying shopping bags, wearing sun shades, a watch, shoes or trainers
and not a stitch of clothing. Surely, that was never meant to be. It
cannot be too hygienic in a supermarket surely.

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